I’m a proud member of AASECT, which means I stand by a set of values designed to protect your sexual health and freedom. But let’s put the clinical jargon aside—here is what those values actually mean for us and the work we do together:

1. Sex is a Human Right (and a Human Essential)

Sexuality isn’t just a "bonus" part of life; it’s an essential, beautiful, and inherent part of being human. I believe you have the right to a sex life that is healthy, happy, and entirely your own. Whether you’re exploring solo or with partners, your pleasure matters.

I believe healthy sex is always consensual, freely chosen, and governed by you. You deserve to be free from physical or psychological harm, and you should always have the final say over your own bodily autonomy and reproductive choices.

2. Your Body, Your Rules

In this space, we don’t do "normal" vs. "abnormal". Sexuality is a massive, colorful spectrum. I oppose any attempt to pathologize the way you love or the way you play. Whether it’s your orientation, gender identity, or your specific kinks and fantasies—if it’s consensual, it’s valid. Period.

3. Bye-Bye, "Normal"

4. Shame Has No Seat at the Table

The world is full of "shame narratives" that try to restrict our sexual freedom. I stand firmly against the psychological, social, and legislative forces that try to tell you how to live your sex life. I’m here to help you dismantle that guilt and replace it with empowerment.

5. Respect for Inclusivity and Diversity

Sexual health belongs to everyone—regardless of age, race, ability, gender, or background. I’m especially committed to supporting my LGBTQ+ and BIPOC community, ensuring that those of us who have been traditionally marginalized have a safe, expert space to heal and thrive.

6. Right to information and access to care

You have the right to know your own body and how it works. I believe in the power of comprehensive sex education (the kind you actually wish you had in school). That includes the right to access erotic art, toys, and media that help you explore your pleasure safely and joyfully.

7. Healing is a Holistic Journey

When sex feels "off" or "broken", it’s often because of a mix of physical, mental, and cultural factors. I believe in "Sexual Healing" (shoutout to Marvin Gaye, but also to science). We’ll look at the big picture—your history, your heart, and your health—to get you back to a place of fulfillment.

8. People Before Everything

My commitment to sexual health is also a commitment to social justice. I stand against hate, violence, and systems of oppression. In this office (and in the world), people come before property, borders, or politics. Your safety and dignity are my top priorities.

Our values: You deserve Great Sex