Frequently ASked Questions (FAQS)

Gay sex therapy or affirming sex therapy is a specialized form of therapy that focuses on the unique sexual health needs, relationship dynamics, and experiences of gay, trans, and BIPOC men and couples. It is a sex-positive, shame-free space where we move beyond heteronormative "sex ed" to address the actual realities of queer pleasure, intimacy, and identity.

I am an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (CST). This means I have undergone rigorous, specialized training and supervised clinical hours specifically focused on sexual health, pleasure, and complexity. I’ve done the deep-dive training into the science and soul of sex so you don't have to explain the basics to me. Whether we’re talking about bottom-shame, erectile difficulties or challenges, desire discrepancy, or navigating an open relationship, you’re working with a specialist who understands the mechanics of queer pleasure and the nuances of our community.

I primarily work with gay, queer, trans, and BIPOC individuals and partners. My practice is centered on providing culturally humble care for those who have felt misunderstood in traditional therapeutic settings. Whether you are navigating sexual dysfunction, exploring your identity, or looking to deepen intimacy, you are welcome here.

Yes! I specialize in queer relationship therapy. I offer extended 90-minute sessions for couples and partners to ensure we have the time and space to dive deep into communication, relationship structures (like polyamory or ethical non-monogamy), and sexual connection.

I help clients navigate a wide range of concerns, including:

• Sexual performance anxiety and erectile dysfunction.

• Genitalia shame, "penis envy," or body image issues.

• Healing from sexual guilt or religious/cultural trauma.

• Coming out and identity exploration.

• Exploring Kink, BDSM, and alternative sexual practices.

• Navigating non-monogamy and polyamory.

• Out-of-control sexual behaviors (OCSB) or problematic sexual behaviors.

• Gender-affirming care and letters of support for medical transition.

Absolutely. Let’s be real: talking about sex is awkward as hell for most people! My role is to provide a compassionate, judgment-free, and even fun environment where we can unlock the pleasure and fulfillment you deserve. There is nothing "too freaky" or "too weird" to discuss here.

Yes. As a WPATH-informed provider, I provide letters for gender-affirming medical care while keeping gatekeeping to the bare minimum.